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Someone was talking about meeting guys of Craigslist, so I decided to do an experiment.

On 22nd March, I posted an ad with quite restrictive terms -

Experienced Bondage Top looking for Straight or Bi guys to tie up and play with.

Do you want to be tied up by a guy and have him touch and play with you? Made to perform sexual services?

Discretion assured, first-timers welcome, all limits respected.

18-35 only.

So far I have had 5 replies, and its not even been up for one evening yet.

1) Guy wanting to be used in the morning – I replied, no further contact or details.

2) 30 yo guy, who sent a pic, but can only meet in City Centre. Googling his email address brought up several ads looking for “cock fun” so not that straight.

3) I am a student in Manchester, thanks for getting back. Not sure really – Im pretty nervous about the whole thing as I have not had sex with a guy before! I guess I would be happy with you feeling me all over my body. Maybe giving a handjob or a bj – not sure though. Hasn’t replied further (yet).

4) American at airport hotel later in the week. Is 38 too old? would love to try this? 38 6ft 220 shaved head goatee fit athletic fun bi Sent me pics of his face, body, cock. Looks very bearish rather than “fit”. I declined.

5) Hi, i’m 25. I’m a first timer. where do you live? can you accommodate? – exchanged several emails with this one, Sent me naked pics, slightly chubby, says he has had sex with women, but never with men.

I asked No. 5 if he was straight, he said, “I think i’m Bi (not sure yet), i’m a virgin when it comes to men.”

Nothing came of any of these.

Next Day:

Hi, just replying to your add (See below). Really interested in hearing more, would like to meet. I’m a straight guy, often had fantasies about being tied up, gagged and totally helpless while being teased by a guy. Cling film, duct tape, hoods, rope, ball gags. Not into pain or W/S. I’m 24 6ft 2 dark hair, blue eyes, uncut, slight belly. What sort of thing do you have in mind? Let me know if interested.

I replied. He sent me a nice looking face-pic. We exchanged a few emails.

Cool, I’ve had a few fantasies i would like to play. Kidnap scene would be good. Would like to be hooded and mummified leaving just my cock for you to play with. Have a fetish for rope and duct tape.. Having my balls and cock tied so its rock hard. Is there anything you specialise in?

Later: I’m getting excited just reading your e-mails now.LOL. Ok well ive always wanted to be mummified, with cling film then duct tape. Gagged and hooded, you would leave my cock out so you could do as you please with it, suck, stroke, tease. Ass play would be fine, you could cut a nice hole down the back and do what you want. Protection needed though please! Could really only do days as i work in the evenings, that ok?

Later: Sounds good to me, ok so i know its a bit soon but how about tomorrow? I’m free from 10 till 4, would this be ok?

I arraned a meet at 1pm. Sent him my mobile number.

Next morning, nothing, no emails, no TEXTs, I assumed another timewaster, but sent an email asking, “Are we still on for today?”

Hi Really sorry for the delay in response, i over slept a little. Late night at work. Yeah still on if thats ok, forgot to ask do i need to bring anything for you.

Despite oversleeping, he did get the train, and I collected him from the station as arranged.